Key Points

Vibrators are an exciting way to explore new pleasures and dynamics in the bedroom with your partner or to explore your pleasure through masturbation.
If you enjoy clitoral stimulation, try the ROMP Wave for the most versatile toy, shaped perfectly to reach your clit from any angle.
The Wave is fully waterproof and submersible, great for thorough cleaning and really relaxing baths.
This toy’s shape is ideal to lay on top of for clitoral and vulva stimulation, but it also fits into your panties, between you and your partner, or any way you want to hold it.

Elevate your partner and solo play with a versatile and unique clitoral vibrator. The ROMP Wave is perfect to lay on or slip between you and your partner. Get creative and stimulate your partner’s balls during a blow job or excite your nipples during masturbation. The possibilities are endless!

Vibrators for All

Using vibrators or other sex toys is a fun way to explore new pleasures in the bedroom. Using a toy by yourself helps you to explore your body and connect with yourself. Introducing toys with a partner enhances your experience and creates more intimacy. Vibrators and other toys bring different sensations than what you and your partner can create yourselves.

According to Doctor of human sexuality and sex podcast host Dr. Emily Morse, “No matter the genitals of you and your partner, sex toys can be an amazing way to experience more pleasure together, to experiment, and for lots of vulva owners, to orgasm during intercourse. They’re not a ‘replacement,’ as they are categorically different from anyone’s body parts. Rather, the vibration simply stimulates nerve endings deeper than a hand (or a penis, finger, etc.) can reach. For vulva owners, that’s a pretty big bonus.”

Partners are often intimidated by the introduction of toys into their intimate play. Some people interpret the desire for toys as a poor reflection of their skills in bed. Unless you can make your tongue vibrate, it’s completely different! Vibrators can be the star of non-penetrative sex, a tease during foreplay, an addition to penetration, or for solo play. Talk to your partner about trying something new and exciting together.

In June 2023, several sex experts endorsed an article with tips for introducing sex toys into the bedroom. The article says, “No matter when or how you start the conversation, try not to connect your interest in toys to an explicit critique of or frustration with the sex you’re currently having. That will play right into potential underlying insecurities your partner may hold. Don’t apologize or shy away from your own desires either, as that’s a good way to build up anxiety and stress on one or both sides of the conversation. Instead, try ‘coming from a place of exploration.‘”

Explore new realms of pleasure with your boo. Show them a sex toy that caught your attention, like the ROMP Wave, or head to a sex shop to see what you’re interested in together.

Choosing a Vibrator

If you’re in the market for a new sex toy or vibrator, look for something that caters to your ideal pleasure points or something new to experiment with. Most women enjoy clitoral stimulation, which is a target of many sex toys. After all, it’s the only organ with the sole purpose of pleasure!

As a vibrator connoisseur with years of experience testing and reviewing various vibrators, I’m here to share my experience with one of my favorite toys for solo and partner play — the ROMP Wave lay-on vibrator. This palm-sized vibe has treated me well for years, and I think every clitoris owner should have one.

ROMP Wave

The ROMP Wave is a lay-on vibrator, perfectly shaped to stimulate all of your pleasure points near your vulva. This toy has silky smooth silicone, two sides for various sensations, and plenty of patterns and speeds to choose from. Simply apply lube to the toy or yourself, hold the on button for two seconds, and enjoy 60 minutes of non-stop pleasure.

Highlights

This toy has body-safe, incredibly soft silicone for your comfort and health.
The Wave is entirely waterproof for bath play and thorough cleaning.
This handy vibrator fits perfectly between you and your partner during sex or you can lay on top of it.
Enjoy six vibrational levels and four different patterns.

My Experience

I came across the ROMP Wave in a sex shop and it immediately caught my eye. I’ve never seen a vibrator shaped like this. It seems so dirty yet discreet at the same time. I picked up the display toy and immediately knew I had to have it. The silicone is the softest I’ve ever felt in a toy. The vibrations are quite intense for how slim the design is. My mind was going crazy with different ideas of how I could use the toy, and it’s affordable, so I headed to the check-out counter quickly.

I whipped it out in the car to show my partner our plans for the night and was also pleasantly surprised to find a little sheet of dirty stickers and a “Playbook” with ideas to “ride the Wave.” I played with their ideas to stimulate the nipples, wear the vibrator in my panties, and stimulate my partner’s balls during oral sex.

Shape

What immediately drew me to this toy is the shape, which is similar to a tongue. It fits perfectly into my lady bits to stimulate my clitoris and vulva at the same time. This shape makes it versatile and handy for wherever your imagination takes you. It’s advertised as a lay-on vibrator, so you can place it underneath your clitoris and vulva area when taking it from behind. Plus, it fits in your panties for discreet moments.

I also really enjoy placing it between my partner and me in other positions — anytime I want to reach my clit where other vibrators just don’t fit. All of my other vibrators require constant hand control and some maneuvering skills to please me where I need it during sex. With the ROMP Wave, I tuck it where I want it and adjust it very minimally. Laying on top of it means I can move my hips to reach the sweet spot and rely on my partner on top of me for extra pressure and movement.

I love to use this little toy to masturbate. I play with the tip of the Wave to warm me up a bit, use the hollowed side to stimulate my vulva and excite me more, and then flip it over for full contact and pleasure. The quiet motor in this toy is quite impressive. The battery also seems to last a long time because I’ve never dealt with an unexpectedly low battery!

Power of Vibrations

Some vibrators feature a more rumbly sensation, and some have a buzzy vibration. I tend to prefer a rumbly vibration as it’s more powerful, and I need that extra kick. This vibrator is more buzzy than I usually like, but I still love the sensation.

It’s not quite as powerful as my other favorite toys. The buzzy motor gets me most of the way there during solo play but usually doesn’t have the power to bring me over the edge. During sex, the Wave has just the right amount of power to make me cum in combination with other stimulation. However, when I masturbate with it, I usually use the Wave until I’m on the edge, then switch to something a little bit more powerful.

Although this is a drawback for me, I tend to have more powerful orgasms when I build tension like this — so maybe it’s a good thing after all!

Interesting Patterns

Another main attraction for me is the toy’s constant buzz in each vibrational pattern. I find that patterns with most vibrators have moments of buzzing and moments of nothing. These moments of no vibrations are frustrating for me. The ROMP Wave features smaller vibrations during these patterns, so there aren’t pauses in my pleasure. Rather than on and off, it has moments of intense vibes and less intense vibes. It’s amazing!

Discreet

The shape of this toy is ambiguous, only obvious to other dirty minds. It’s super quiet for discreet moments — and not just advertised as quiet, it’s truly quiet! Count down the days until your new vibrator arrives, but rest assured it comes in a discreet package for your privacy.

Buzz Your Clit

If you like to stimulate your clitoris or play with someone else’s, incorporate the ROMP Wave into your sex life. This body-shaped toy is perfect to slide into any sexual encounters with a partner or to pleasure yourself. Add a little or a lot of lube for your comfort (remember the clitoris doesn’t lubricate itself) and enjoy a toe-curling pleasure.

Published on Cupid’s Light July 23, 2023